Everyone has a unique mix of traits that make up their personality. Our personalities make us who we are, influencing how we express ourselves, see the world, and interact with others.
According to the American Psychiatric Association, a person with a healthy personality is able to cope with life's stresses, maintain intimate relationships, and develop successful friendships. Sometimes, however, people experience enduring patterns of behaving, thinking, and feeling that differ significantly from the cultural expectations of a population. In such cases, they may be diagnosed with what is known as a personality disorder.
These mental health conditions create significant distress and impairment in a person's life. The "Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders" (DSM-5-TR) outlines 10 specific personality disorders. Each is characterized by unique patterns affecting emotional regulation, self-image, and interpersonal relationships.
Below, take a closer look at how personality disorders are defined in the DSM-5-TR, the signs and symptoms of these conditions, what causes them, and the different treatments that are available.
What are Personality Disorders, Exactly?
Personality disorders include the 10 diagnosable psychiatric conditions that are recognized and described in the fifth and most recent version of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5-TR).
Each is a distinct mental illness defined by personality traits that can be troubling enough to create problems with relating to other people in healthy ways, and can lead to significant distress or impairment in important areas of functioning
Personality disorders are considered:
- Enduring: They persist across time and situations
- Impairing: They create problems in a person's life and ability to function
- Distressing: They can lead to feelings and behaviors that are upsetting, disruptive, and risky
Types of Personality Disorders
The DSM-5-TR organizes personality disorders into three groups, or clusters, based on shared key features.
Cluster A
These personality disorders are characterized by odd or eccentric behavior. People with cluster A personality disorders tend to experience major disruptions in relationships because their behavior may be perceived as peculiar, suspicious, or detached.
Cluster A personality disorders include:
- Paranoid personality disorder (PPD) affects between 2.3% and 4.4% of adults in the United States. Symptoms include chronic, pervasive distrust of other people; suspicion of being deceived or exploited by others, including friends, family, and partners.
- Schizoid personality disorder (SPD) is characterized by social isolation and indifference toward other people. It affects slightly more men than women. People with this disorder are often described as cold or withdrawn, rarely have close relationships with other people, and may be preoccupied with introspection and fantasy.
- Schizotypal personality disorder (SPD) features odd speech, behavior, appearance, strange beliefs, and difficulty forming relationships.
Cluster B
The cluster B personality disorders are characterized by dramatic or erratic behavior. People who have a personality disorder from this cluster tend to either experience very intense emotions or engage in extremely impulsive, theatrical, promiscuous, or law-breaking behaviors.
Cluster B personality disorders include:
- Antisocial personality disorder (ASPD) tends to show up in childhood, unlike most other personality disorders (most don't become apparent until adolescence or young adulthood). Symptoms include disregarding rules and social norms and a lack of remorse for others.
- Borderline personality disorder (BPD) is characterized by instability in interpersonal relationships, emotions, self-image, and impulsive behaviors.
- Histrionic personality disorder (HPD) features excessive emotionality and attention seeking that often leads to socially inappropriate behavior to get attention.
- Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is associated with self-centeredness, exaggerated self-image, and lack of empathy for others, and is often driven by an underlying fragility in the sense of self.
Research indicates that the cluster B personality disorders are the most common type in clinical settings. They often lead to severe impairments in function, require substantial treatment, and have a suicide rate 50 times that of the general population.
Cluster C
Cluster C personality disorders are characterized by anxiety. People with personality disorders in this cluster tend to experience pervasive anxiety and/or fearfulness.
Cluster C personality disorders include:
- Avoidant personality disorder (APD) is a pattern of social inhibition and avoidance fueled by fears of inadequacy and criticism by others.
- Dependent personality disorder (DPD) involves fear of being alone and often causes those who have the disorder to do things to try to get other people to take care of them.
- Obsessive-compulsive personality disorder (OCPD) is characterized by a preoccupation with orderliness, perfection, and control of relationships. Though similarly named, it is not the same as obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
Symptoms of Personality Disorders
According to the DSM-5-TR, personality disorders tend to appear in adolescence or early adulthood, continue over many years, and can cause a great deal of distress. They can potentially cause enormous conflict with other people, impacting relationships, social situations, and life goals.
People with personality disorders often don't recognize that they have problems and are often confusing and frustrating to the people around them. This can include mental health professionals, which is why personality disorders can sometimes be challenging to diagnose.
Certain symptoms of personality disorders can fall into two categories: self-identity and interpersonal functioning.
Self-identity problems include:
- Unstable self-image
- Inconsistencies in values, goals, and appearance
Interpersonal problems include:
- Being insensitive to others (unable to empathize)
- Difficulty knowing boundaries between themselves and others
- Inconsistent, detached, overemotional, abusive, or irresponsible styles of relating
How Personality Disorders Are Diagnosed?
According to the DMS-5-TR, a person must meet the following criteria to be diagnosed with a personality disorder:
- Chronic and pervasive patterns of behavior that affect social functioning, work, school, and close relationships
- Symptoms that affect two or more of the following four areas: thoughts, emotions, interpersonal functioning, impulse control
- Onset of patterns of behavior that can be traced back to adolescence or early adulthood
- Patterns of behaviors that cannot be explained by any other mental disorders, substance use, or medical conditions
Ruling Out Other Conditions
Before a mental health professional or doctor can diagnose a personality disorder, they must make a differential diagnosis to rule out other disorders or medical conditions that may be causing the symptoms.
A differential diagnosis is very important, but can be difficult since personality disorders also commonly co-occur with other mental illnesses. A person who meets the criteria for one personality disorder will often also meet the criteria for one or more additional personality disorders.
Research suggests that approximately 85% of people with borderline personality disorder (BPD) also meet diagnostic criteria for at least one other personality or mood disorder.
What Causes Personality Disorders?
Personality disorders can affect anyone. The National Institute of Mental Health states that 9.1% of the general population has a personality disorder, and 84.5% of those people also have another type of mental health condition.
Although experts do not yet fully understand the exact causes of personality disorders, they believe that both genetic and environmental factors play a role.
Roughly 50% of personality disorders are attributed to genetic factors and family history. Genetic vulnerabilities may make people more susceptible to these conditions, while experiences and other environmental factors may act as a trigger in the development of a personality disorder.
There is also a significant association between a history of childhood trauma and verbal abuse. Evidence suggests that children who experience verbal abuse are three times more likely to have borderline, narcissistic, obsessive-compulsive, or paranoid personality disorders in adolescence and adulthood.
High reactivity in children, including sensitivity to light, noise, texture, and other stimuli, has also been linked to certain personality disorders.
Treatment for Personality Disorders
Compared to mood disorders such as clinical depression and bipolar disorder, there have historically been relatively few studies on how to treat personality disorders effectively. Many experts believe that personality disorders are challenging to treat because they are, by definition, long-standing patterns of personality.
However, there are evidence-based treatments that have been found effective for personality disorders.
In general, the goal of personality disorder treatment includes the following:
- Reducing subjective distress and symptoms such as anxiety and depression
- Helping people to understand the aspect of their problems that is internal to themselves
- Changing maladaptive and socially undesirable behaviors, including recklessness, social isolation, lack of assertiveness, and temper outbursts
- Modifying problematic personality traits like dependency, distrust, arrogance, and manipulativeness
Psychotherapy
The National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) lists several types of psychotherapy that may be useful in the treatment of personality disorders:
- Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) teaches coping skills and strategies for dealing with urges related to self-harm and suicide, regulating emotions, and improving relationships.
- Cognitive behavior therapy (CBT), the goal of which, as stated by NAMI, is "to recognize negative thoughts and learn effective coping strategies."
- Mentalization-based therapy (MBT) teaches people to notice and reflect on their internal states of mind and those of others.
- Psychodynamic therapy places a large emphasis on the unconscious mind, where upsetting feelings, urges, and thoughts that are too painful for us to directly look at are housed.
- Family therapy involves teaching family members to change their unhealthy reactions to each other and learn effective communication skills.
Medication
Medication can be useful to treat associated or co-morbid depression or anxiety. Depending on your symptoms, your healthcare provider may prescribe one or more of the following:
Coping With Personality Disorders
Learning how to cope with a personality disorder is key to functioning at your best. In addition to seeking professional support, it's important to reach out to a supportive friend or family member who can help when you are struggling with strong emotions. If you don’t have someone in mind that is supportive and you are in a crisis, call a helpline.
- Become an expert. The more you know about your condition, the better able you’ll be to understand and cope with symptoms. Education about your condition can also help motivate you to stay the treatment course.
- Play an active role in your treatment. Take time to think about your treatment goals during and after therapy sessions. Even if you’re not feeling well, don't skip your sessions or stop taking your medications without talking to your healthcare professional. Similarly, be sure to stick with regular appointments.
- Practice self-care strategies. Regular exercise and consistent eating and sleeping schedules can help prevent mood swings and manage anxiety, stress, and depression. It’s also important to avoid drugs and alcohol, which can worsen symptoms and interact with medications.
For Loved Ones
If you have a loved one with a personality disorder, you may also find it helpful to talk to a mental health professional. A professional can help you learn coping skills and how to set boundaries and practice self-care strategies. Group therapy and support groups may also be helpful resources of support and information.
If you or a loved one are struggling with a personality disorder, contact the Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration (SAMHSA) National Helpline at 1-800-662-4357 for information on support and treatment facilities in your area.
For more mental health resources, see our National Helpline Database.